Tuesday, November 10, 2009

While reaching The Knot...

I'm sure all the bride-to-be(s) are facing the ups and downs while reaching to that big day. Well, i also had encountered some minor problems to ensure my Big Day is the one to be remembered in my entire life. Kahwin biarla sekali je kan. But of course, mine is quite simple, not tha super-grand like others'. However, how simple my wedding will be, i will try my best to achieve my wedding dream and at the same time to ensure my parents' do's and dont's regarding my wedding.
Okay...let us see my ups and downs so far (17 days left!):
1. Cik Y
Ok. Cik Y is the auntie that is supposedly handling and decorating my Dais, bedroom at Kuantan's side. She is also supposedly to be my MUA. I hired her (chewah) as she was the one who gave her service for my both cousins back few years. So, i guess it would be easier as my cousins have worked with her previously. At first, I booked make-up service, dais and bedroom set. Few months later, i found that i wanted someone younger to do the make-up.. (suka kita la kan..Big Day kite kot) because when i looked back at her touch (based on samples), she was quite old-fashion when it comes to MUA. But, when i was cancelling the make up and replace with baju persalinan, i said it nicely. I said that a friend of mine had volunteered to do the make-up for me. So, she said ok. She said i have to come over to her shop at Kuantan to pilih baju persalinan. And on that time, i already booked a new MUA, Kak Nor.
Since that, i was hardly reach her through phone. I would like to ask several things regarding other accesories such as alas pelamin, tudung, etc..but just imagine, she wouldn't pick up a call, but when my mom called her, she said she was so busy. I call x answer, i sms x reply.Pernah i call, husband die angkat masa tu die ngah tido, boleh x suami die kejot die die x nak bgn...and after that so many excuses she gave us when i want to get in touch with her. Plus, baju persalinan ( a white dress ) sangat old-fashion pastu nak charge mahal2, dah la kotor! die x basuh! i was so pissed off with the way she treated me as her customer. After a discussion with my fiance and parents, i have decided to cancel everything that i have booked with her. I asked my mom to talk to her last two weeks and cancelled everything. My mom said she was speechless and didnt expect that i will do smthing to that extent. Boleh x die cakap, die x kisah! Bukan nak say sorry pun...Now, i am so relief not to face her face after this and i already booked everything with my MUA, Kak Nor. Kak Nor is so good at customer service tau..so far i like her service..
ok..to be continued

Sunday, November 8, 2009

3 minus 1


Yippee!!! i am done with one! two more to go. what two one three ni. no..i'm talking about my commitments...my challenging commitments for this past few months. I am done with my master's courseworks and just said goodbye to my final exam last week!...huhhh..what a relief...now, i still have two more things to settle on...my wedding preparation as well as my work! (which is of course a non-stop commitment).
so far, i could say the wedding preparation is still progressing to 80%...i know! i just have less than 3 weeks left but i'm working on it ok...
yesterday my parents and my lil sis had came to my apartment and we settled on the curtain. Oh i luv my red curtain! wanna see? do come over to my house!
oh...i am so freee.... at least after completed my courseworks. i have one more sem to go for my research report..I..just can't wait!

Monday, November 2, 2009

Kelly Green





So, what is my wedding's colour theme? Actually baju sandingku nanti ijau lomot. ape? hijau lumut. or should i address it as kelly green? i like the colour. but bridesmaid i have asked them to wear white so nnti baru cantik. hantaran i da plan ngn my mom nak buat hijau putih. maybe white flowers with kelly green ribbons. OMG! i can't imagine how my mom n my aunt are decorating the hantaran back home. I am sooooo going to balik Kuantan this Friday.
Yippee! my kad kahwin da siap. And still mengikut theme..turqoise colour..my fiance was like...tur what? turqoise la sayang. x pela. men...diorang tau hijau je.i love my wedding cards! kawan2 ku..kad akan menyusul ye! mwahhhhhh

Thursday, October 8, 2009

kerja kahwin

Nak kahwin bukannye senang.Tapi kalau pikir susah, manusia mmg x kan kahwin. Sangat beruntung bagi mereka yang mempunyai parent yg nak support belanja kahwin. Ada jugak parent yang mampu tapi lebih suka anak tu berdikari, so parent cakap: belanja 50:50.Terpaksalah anak2 menabung sbb nak kahwin.Bile x cukup duit terpaksalah delay tarikh kahwin smpai rasa2 cukup. Nak tunggu cukup, macam2 hal boleh jadi.

Beruntung jugak bagi pasangan2 yang dikurniakan pekerjaan dgn gaji yang lumayan. Setahun kumpul2 dah boleh kawen. Tapi yang kerja gaji cukup2 makan je tetiap bulan memang x de rasa nak kawen la. X pun kawen jugak tapi pinjam sana pinjam sini.

Jadi, buatla yang termampu. Jangan tengok orang tu kawen perfect macam puteri kayangan ngn anak raja. Semua dapat pujian dari nasi kenduri, baju pengantin sampai gambar kawen. Semua perfect. Teringin nak perfect jugak, tapi duit x mengizinkan. Silap hari bulan, terpaksa berhutang. Nak mintak ngan mak bapak pun, biarla berpada. Janganla sampai menyusahkan sangat mak bapak. Parent akan tolong tapi ingat kite sorang ke anak diorang? X kan nak habiskan duit kat kawen kite semata2.

Zaman sekarang, buatla seringkas mana pun, paling kurang pun 20 ribu mesti ada dalam tangan.Baru2 ni pergi kenduri kahwin seorang kawan, very simple..pelamin pn x de.Tapi Tanya berapa habis, dia cakap “23 ribu jugak la”. Itu x de pelamin dah 23 ribu. Mestila. Catering paling banyak habis duit. Tapi kalau sesetengah tempat, duit akan dapat balik bile tetamu2 datang dan bagi duit. Tapi tak semua tempat.

Time macam ni la anak2 baru ingat jasa ibu bapa. Dulu, kalau mak kata jangan tetap nak buat jugak.Degil.Ayah kata yang ini, nak yang itu. Tapi bila bab nak kahwin, duit mak bapak jugak yg digunakan. Haha apela aku merapu macam Kak Sri Siantan ni. Whatever it is….pilihla pasangan yg betul, balasla jasa ibu bapa dan kalau nak kahwin, buatla yg termampu. Ukurla baju di badan sendiri ye y’all…

Monday, October 5, 2009

Cupcake & Cheesecake







lovely, isn't it? Congrats to Syah & Nis for tying the knot on last 26.9.2009 and for having a beautiful wedding, i would say. Knowing Nis, i know she's a very particular person. So, it is no surprise that the wedding turned out well as it's plan. I love the concepts and wedding cake and cute cupcakes! I got these snapshots from Nis's facebook and i couldn't make it to this wedding which is located at Kota Tinggi, Johor due to Hari Raya Celebration and stuff. But, insyaAllah, i will attend the reception on Syah's side at Segamat this coming Sunday.
Syah is one of my fiance's close friends (BFF la tu). Syah dah selamat. Tinggal dia n lg sorang- Amin. We're next on November-December. Amin? Next year maybe! InsyaAllah...



Friday, October 2, 2009

susahnye nak pakai contact lense

sumpah.memang susah ke.atau urat2 mata aku ni yg x suke contact lense.urat2 mataku.janganla degil sangat.i nak practise pakai ni..aisshhhh

Shelter

I and my fiance are in a mission to find a house / apartment to rent. I'll be moving to that house/ appartment on early Nov. (only me ya). We're looking a place to live that is convenient for me and him in terms of location, distance, facilities (i want one with swimming pool) and affordable. We're thinking of Klang and Shah Alam area. Wish us luck!