Hubby is away for outstation work..only for 2 days and one night..just at MODENAS, Gurun, Kedah...but still...i feel helpless a lil bit..starting to miss him already..haha...2 hari je pun..i'm gonna be ok!
The longest period that he went for outstation was last December, to Jakarta and Bandung, for one week..i know i would cry a river..so i asked my mom to come and stay for one week. Besides, i was having my terrible all-day sickness on that particular time.
I don't like him to be away. In fact, if possible, i would just love him to be at home and lepak with me and fahri, just inside our home sweet home. but, being wife, we shouldn't control or set limitation to our husband. They need freedom as much as we do. Even though we are already married, but sometimes we just need time with our own bffs or doing things that we like (which might not suitable for the spouse to join). That's why i don't mind if he wants to play paintball on the weekend or snooker once a week. But, being myself, i just don't have the interest to involve in those activities..i rather stay with my son at home, spring cleaning, online...that's it..if i really have to go for bff-girls-outing, then i will go...I guess that's how difference men and women devote themselves in marriage...
I have my hundred percent respect towards married couple who have to be apart or 'weekend husband and wife'. I can't imagine if i have to go through that kind of marriage. Who knows, only Allah s.w.t. knows....
hmm..hope that my hubby will settle his job well and come back quick!
The longest period that he went for outstation was last December, to Jakarta and Bandung, for one week..i know i would cry a river..so i asked my mom to come and stay for one week. Besides, i was having my terrible all-day sickness on that particular time.
I don't like him to be away. In fact, if possible, i would just love him to be at home and lepak with me and fahri, just inside our home sweet home. but, being wife, we shouldn't control or set limitation to our husband. They need freedom as much as we do. Even though we are already married, but sometimes we just need time with our own bffs or doing things that we like (which might not suitable for the spouse to join). That's why i don't mind if he wants to play paintball on the weekend or snooker once a week. But, being myself, i just don't have the interest to involve in those activities..i rather stay with my son at home, spring cleaning, online...that's it..if i really have to go for bff-girls-outing, then i will go...I guess that's how difference men and women devote themselves in marriage...
I have my hundred percent respect towards married couple who have to be apart or 'weekend husband and wife'. I can't imagine if i have to go through that kind of marriage. Who knows, only Allah s.w.t. knows....
hmm..hope that my hubby will settle his job well and come back quick!
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