My Aneesa

 

Aneesa Aisha sayang. Sorry sayang mama, when you came into this world, mama was super busy with new job, workplace, never-ending tasks. But I love you tenderly.

Aneesa is a very smart girl. I believe she will grow up becoming a very successful lady, insyaAllah dunia and akhirat. Allah Maha Baik Maha Pengampun Maha Penyayang. He blesses me with a daughter, wonderful daughter Alhamdulillah. She is just 2 years and a half but MasyaAllah her character, her intelligence really impress me. Bila tengok Neesa, mama hanya mampu memuji kebesaran dan kekuasaan Allah swt.

She is sooo cheeky. Funny. Smart. She is so adorable alhamdulillah. Her fav youtube videos for now is ‘Diana and Roma’. But she can be so garang too. With everyone! Haha I really need to train her to be more respectful to elderly. For now, I will just layankan sometimes.

Oh ya the challenge to raise her I will say she hardly to get in bed early. And there you go, mama is a sleepy zombie at night coz need to temankan her. Nevertheless, mama always pray that Aneesa Aisha will grow up healthily, gracefully, sopan santun, hormat orang tua and success always dunia and akhirat. Aneesa, my best companion. Alhamdulillah. Thank you Allah the Almighty.

My Naeem

My Naeem. Actually I am quite sad that I was not able to record memory as much as I did for Ashman for Naeem (and Neesa of course). Especially bila diorang dah besar ni, oh dear there were numbers of events and significant milestones that I did not manage to keep here. Sad. Due to my busy and hectic schedule. Anyway let’s continue with Naeem.

Naeem kesayangan opah. Itu yang boleh I kata. Of course la we love him so much. Naeem ni challenging a bit as he loves to argue with you (more to asking why I can’t do this and that) BUT for me I truly believe that this is a test by Allah for husband and I so that we will improve to become a better parent and a better khalifah, specifically. For me, Alhamdulillah I truly understand his character. But the challenge is to what extent that I should be nice and kind, and when I should be more strict, you know what I mean. Tapi I selalu muhasabah diri when Naeem buat kite marah because that’s when you have to reflect upon yourself. Thank you Naeem. I know you are a good boy and YOU ARE. He is such a sweetheart at times. He is so caring yet sensitive. But mama has to be firm because mama wants the best for you my darling. I know you are. Biasalah budak2 nak membesarkan..

Unlike his brother, this one tak suka makan sangat, still nak makan bersuap and still minum susu dalam botol ye tuan tuan and puan puan ahaha nasibla naeem if naeem baca ni just take it as something yang lucu untuk diingat ok. But he is the one yang easily to get friends, very active and of course la his deep and loud voice tu semua orang tau. But, when it comes to taking pictures, still shy2 cat just like the brother. A gadget freak jugak so mama memang pantau 24 hours. And the best part is, suka tolong mama kemas rumah, I must say he can be very particular and quite perfectionist when it comes to keep the house neat and tidy.

Academic wise, so-so juga and I really need to get him motivated so that he will love studying and learning. Actually dengan naeem ni, you have to use psychology.. I mean to all kids la actually. So that they will understand why they need to study and not just spend time watching tv or playing. As parents, we just need to put extra effort. Kena rajin skit to explain this and that.

My latest update October 2020- Ashman

 

Alhamdulillah..now I am a mother of 3 kids who I see and love every single day

Ashman Fahri 10 yrs old

Aariz Naeem 8 yrs old

Aneesa Aisha 2 yrs old

I have abandoned this blog for so long. Thus, I owe few stories.

First, let me talk about the kids.

Ashman

Look how he has grown up, literally heh. I mean, most of my acquaintances be it family members or friends, they are so overwhelmed when talking about how ashman, my ashman has changed physically haha. I pun kadang-kadang tak sedar bila masanya dia jadi besar gitu. But, I always remind him to control his food intake. Even though, some people will argue that I should just have let him eat whatever he wants to but NO… I strictly monitor his food intake.. Aishhh takkan kita je pandai nak cantik-cantik, nak look good. I want my kids to look good as well and most importantly to eat healthily and of course to live healthily. Actually I am happy to see him having so much love towards food but he needs to know where to draw the line.

Academic wise, he is so-so je la but Alhamdulillah. My husband and I, we have tried our best to make sure that he is on the right track even though he needs to improve in so many ways. Now, I send him for BM tuition every Saturday as his BM adoyaiiii. His English Alhamdulillah pergghhh accent dia kalah mama speaking. But he really needs to improve more on his handwriting, communication skill, socialising skill and need to be more organised. Oh ya, he used to be at number one among his classmates when he was in primary 2. I am a proud mama.

Behaviour wise, Alhamdulillah he is such a sweetheart. Cuma adalah perangai budak2 lagi macam still tak malu pakai baju depan orang kat living room hahah hadoii penat mama bebel tang ni. Of course la gadget lover tp I am trying my best to limit his screen time. Solat, walaupun still kena remind most of the time but insyaAllah solat no 1 ok ye sayang mama.