Raya bonding

Assalam.. on last Saturday, I had one open house raya invitation from my aunty in Damansara while my hubby had 3 invitations! But, I decided to pay a visit to my aunt's house in Sri Gombak as I guess I haven't been to her house for almost 2 years. I feel really bad as both aunt and uncle or whom I call Ngah and Ayah Ngah were the ones who have helped me tremendously during my TESL years. So many deeds they have done for me. Even at one time, when I already worked in Perak, my car broke down in the mid of highway to KL... it's in Rawang..and my kind uncle came and resque me at night! Just imagine... he came all the way from Gombak to Rawang! They were so nice.. and me? After getting married, I only went to their house when my parents came or when they had a kenduri, etc.. I really can not forgive myself. My resolution now is to go more often to their house. I really feel bad about this! So, I wanna thank my hubby for agreeing with my plan and for not going to his friends' open houses. Thank u love. 

Then, I had an idea ..which I decided to go to my bff's house, Zaidioerra Eriannie in Taman Greenwood, Gombak, because it's just nearby. We often chit-chatting via Whatsapp but hard to meet up as she's in KL and I am in Klang/ Shah Alam. So I told Zai that I wanna go beraya to her house since I am visiting my aunt in Gombak.. Alang-alang.. She said ok.. 

So, everything went so well, I really miss my aunt and uncle. Good to see and catching up with them. Also my bbf, thank u for the hospitality hehe.. Zai and husband were really friendly.. Our kids also did play together..I love her cozy house. Thank u zai.. memang tak puas borak.. but we had to make a move around 4 pm as I need to go to my other aunt's open house in Damansara. So, overall, last Saturday was ,y day..thank u hubby for being so tak berkira. =)

 let's start the open-house journey!

 fahri and akim

 as usual, fahri say no to the camera

naeem and auni

me and Zai..serius rasa teringat balik zaman sekolah bile bergambar mcm ni..pose pn same rasenya

 my aut;s open house in damansara

 amboi fahri..tgk kakak cantik ke..

 with my beautiful counsins, erni and zeze

finally succeed taking photo with these gorgeous cousins as they were so busy entertaining the guests .. they are still in high school ok!

Ateff's farewell

Salam.. so after my aunt went back, I quickly got ready for the group date that night. Actually, I put on an fb status about our friend, Ateff is leaving on a jet plane very soon to further his PHD and tagging friends who were our clique back in SESS. Then, I created a whatsapp group as I guess the conversation should be more confidential hehe. Finally, we had decided on the time, date and place to meet. It's at Kak Lin's house. Actually, all of us (read: Kak Lin, Fya, Mun, Tina, Ateff, Amal, Tika and myself) are bunch of people who got very close when we worked in SESS back in 2009. And all of us have left the place for good =) and continuing our living in other places.

So, the meet-up was successful except for Tika and Tina could not make it that night. Tak puas rasanya jumpa diorang. Thank u Kak Lin for having us and serving us with delicious soto. It is kinda a pot luck event as we also brought other meals along. My kids... my kids.. as usual.. they will not seat still. But Alhamdulillah..they got easier to be friend with Kak Lin's cute daughters, hannah and sarah.. but at times they were out of control (gonna explain more on this on the next post). Anyway, we wish Ateff all the best in Aussie and bring back his doctorate and becoming the new HOD in ____ heee.

Fahri and Hannah...

Fahri was super friendly that nite...I guess they do look alike..like siblings heeh

"Stop it... i don't want"

Naeem and Sarah also wanted to play along

Fahri ni mmg semua benda die nak main

 Sorry ye hanna..fahri teringin nak ride basikal pink ni

Preggy mun, amal and ateff

Kak Lin n Fya

The husbands.. mine je x de..tukang amik gambar

 kak lin and hubby were adjusting the monopod

my heroes

candid ;)

with my sayang sayang

bff fya n mun

Makcikku datang beraya

Assalamualaikum w.b.t....

On last Thursday, my aunt and cousin from Kuantan came to my house for beraya. She was actually here to look after her grandchildren, Darwish and Danisha as my cousin (which is her son), Zul needed to attend a jamuan raya in PJ but they could not bring the kids along. So, my aunt stayed at my other aunt's house in Gombak. So, my aunt who I call her as Cik Nah, called me on the Thursday's morning, to ask whether I am ok if she wanted to come that night. I was like huhu...because I already had a plan - meet-up session cums farewell to my friend, Ateff at Kak Lin's house that night. I was like so sorry that I already had a plan that night. But, I felt so guilty that made me called my mom and told her about it. Cik Nah is very close to us- to me. I felt bad. So, as usual, my mom would give solution within a minute! Love u ummi! She said why don't I just invited Cik Nah to come to my house on the evening instead. Ting!!!! Yeahh...how I couldn't thought of that. It was such a good idea as coincidentally, I took a half-day leave that day as my MIL needed to go for a medical check-up. Thank u ummi for saving your daughter yg gelabah ni from feeling guilty for the rest of her life =) .. So yup, I called my aunty back and told her about it and she said ok. So, I called my MIL to check on what do we have and don't at the kitchen and went to Giant to buy stuffs for cooking.

I reached home, and then my MIL left the house for the clinic's appointment together with my FIL. I took a shower quickly, entertained Naeem for few mins (he now loves to request this and that).. then shoot to the kitchen.. I prepared a fried mee (not spicy so my kids also can enjoy it) and I also prepared cocktail pudding. So, I already had a dessert to bring to Kak Lin's house that night! Settled. Alhamdulillah.. Then, my PIL returned home and my MIL brought Naeem to sleep. She looked so happy.. I guess because her blood level is showing a good read. Alhamdulillah. Happy for her.

Then, around 5.30 pm, Cik Nah with her son, Zul and wife, Nadia arrived at my home. Makin kaya budak ini skrg. Kereta makin besar! hee.. Alhamdulillah..happy for him. They have two kids. Darwish, same as as Naeem and lil Danisha, 6 months. Then, my hubby got back from work. The kids were playing around together even though they looked a lil bit shy shy cat at times. Danisha is such a cute baby girl. She was not feeling well and having flu.

I really appreciated my aunt's presence that evening as I have so much respect on her and family. She is the next kin of my family. She is very close to my family as she is the only sister (on my dad's side) who is living in Kuantan, nearby our house in Kuantan. They have each other to rely on.. InsyaAllah. Thank u Cik Nah for your visit. 

Naeem and Darwish were socializing

with Danisha...geramm kan..

family picture including my MIL

Thank u for visiting... till we meet again.. InsyaAllah

Kalau dah jodoh

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Tadi baru pas baca kisah cinta blogger Namee Roslan. Dah banyak kali baca tapi tak bosan sebab so sweet. Kalau boleh back to past, teringin nak macam namee jugak. Hanya ada satu cinta. Bukan kapel clash kapel clash. Tak de kisah duka. Tu la namanya tak sabar. Orang bercinta nak bercinta jugak. If I tunggu putera idaman datang, bukan mencari...kalau dah jodoh ngan Epul, kat Kuantan pun jumpa kan.. Oh lah dunia..zaman jahil..zaman keduniaan...

Cakap fasal 'sweet', Alhamdulillah.. Epul adalah lelaki paling sweet dalam hidup sy. Sy x sangka akan end up kahwin dengan dia. Saya dulu punyalah teringin nak bercinta... tapi pemalu ngan lelaki. So penamatnya saya terjebak dengan dunia cyber. Dapatla IRC..frenster..myspace dengan kawan2 lelaki dalam alam cyber. Baru tahu..ohh cam ni rupanya gaya bila berkawan dgn lelaki..walaupun hanyan dalam chatting haha. Nak borak depan2 jangan harap...malu! Tapi lama2 baru berani jumpa bila rasa yakin sikit...buat2 cool macam dah biasa borak ngn laki sedangkan hmmm...So..pendek cerita, Dua ex-boyfriends saya memang kenal dari cyber. That's why ingatkan I end up kahwin dgn rakan cyber haha.

Tula. Adik2 sekalian..tak payah cari cinta ni. Ia akan datang sendiri. Sabar je.. kalau sabar pasti lebih manis hidup tu =) Kalau tak..tu yang jadi patah hati la..kecewa la...tak de ketenangan la. Percayalah dik non.

Cakap fasal jodoh ni... sebenarnya kita dapat rasa kot sama ada diakah orangnya ataupun tidak...dan bila dia jodoh kita...jalan dipermudahkan Allah swt. Macam miracle pun ada. Kalau nak imbau balik.. kalau i olls layan few crushes I masa sekolah I dulu, agaknya pas SPM terus kahwin kot.Sebab ada yang cuba ngorat sampai 3 tahun..macam2 dia buat tapi I x layan. So..adelah sebab nape I pemalu masa sekolah dulu..rupa2nya supaya I x sangkut ngan budak sekolah, sebaliknya sangkut ngan budak Klang..hihi..And kalau imbau balik, ada few good men yang I kenal suka kat I ..nampakla dari segi perbuatan (belikan hadiah, tolong masa susah n senang) tapi lambat plak effort nyer untuk bukak mulut..tapi kalau bukak mulut pun I olls tak nak..sbb masa tu hati pada orang lain heee

Tapi ...kalau dah jodoh...kenal seminggu pun encik Epul dah menyuarakan hajat untuk jadikan I isteri. Tak tahula apa yang dia nampak kat I ni mase tu senahh oiiii. Bila tanya dia balik "Camane ek.. baru kenal I seminggu..dah boleh ajak I kahwin?" dia jawab "masa tu memang tengah nak cari calon isteri pun.. so hati dah suka kat u nak buat camane.. lgpun I memang nak cari cikgu / lecturer jadi bini".. haa jawapan..percaya tak... first time jumpa epul..masa tu dia bawak awek lain (which he claimed not a special girlfiend.. macam peringkat baru nak kenal gitu ngn awek tu).. itu antara penyebab I rejected him few times memula sebab x percaya kat dia.. tapi beria2 dia nak buktikan yg dia bersungguh2 nak I n die memang tak de gf..pastu disupport baik oleh bff dia n also my bff yg memang ada malam first time jumpa tu (kat ss2 murni).. i olls pun bagi peluang la..kesian plak.. tapi dah berjanji ngan Allah swt masa tu.. hati ini hanya 50% diberi kepada lelaki selagi belum sah nikah. so in case tak jadi..tak de lah frust sangat.. ye lar.. dengan ex2 sebelum ni semua frust menonggeng. Semua diorang yang buat hal.. ada yang kahwin dgn org lain diam2.. ada yg kantoi pompuan lain.. tapi ngan Epul..he is the first guy ever yang berani and cepat express his feeling towards me (seminggu ok!).. n terus ajak kahwin..

Walaupun di pertengahan, ada satu ujian tapi dia tetap yakin dengan hubungan kami..malah lagi nak cepat tunang and kahwin. Since that, I yakin dia memang sayang I. Memang syukur sangat pada Allah swt dipertemukan dengan Epul. I really love his bond with his parents and siblings. Dia anak sulung. Memang nampak sangat. Adik2 dia sangat la baik semuanya. Syukur. mak n ayah dia lagi lah...syukur sangat.

Memang tak sangka I yang kaki tenet and chatting..end up kahwin dgn mamat yang jumpa kat restoran sesak tepi jalan ss2 Murni =)

Jamuan raya: Part 2

Assalamualaikum... dah cakap memang kena buat jamuan raya part 2. My hubby's friends pulak. I rasa kami mmg kena beli bekas2 air.. container untuk letak2 lauk pauk sbb kitorg memang suka menjamu orang makan hihi.. menu kali ni.. nasi hujan panas..nasi i olls masak..ayam merah my MIL buat..thank u mak tolong wpun x berapa nk sihat hari tu..acar i buat..pastu i buat agar2 batik...and potato salad. Oh I buat steamboat jugak.. Frust sangat gambar food tak sempat amik sbb kelam kelibut. I ada invited few of my close friends tapi yang datang cuma Sandra je..kebetulan sbb she lives in the same neighborhood. Yang lain dah datang last week.

 Antara yang datang..kebanyakannya officemates hubby

 Sandra! tahnk u babe! lepas rindu!

 Biasala..anak2 i olls..aktiviti di luar

 Schenna, chad's wife with their kid, qayra ..chad is my hubby's bff

 Qayra..look at the camera!

 ok..dapat!

abg fahri penat layan tetamu ke?

 cikin yg tengah tu (my hubby's friend from MRSMKT) with her SIL

 forever bff hubby ameen with wife, forever bff I olss sha...with adelea

fahri dah x takut uncle ameen! yeay..lolz

Dah..x de open house my house lagi..dah penat haha